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How to Help Your Teen Prevent Relapse
May 18, 2022

How to Help Your Teen Prevent Relapse

Watching your teenager struggle with addiction is never easy. However, the peace and pride you experience when they attend addiction treatment and get sober are unmatched. Sobriety and recovery from addiction are difficult, making that achievement extremely special for you and your teen.

Unfortunately, relapse is a part of many people’s stories. As a result, you may be worried about your teenager suffering from a misstep in their sobriety. Worrying about this is completely normal and, thankfully, there are several ways to prevent relapse in substance abuse recovery.

If your teen is sober and recovering from drug addiction, you need to understand how to help them prevent a relapse from occurring.

Get Educated on Addiction

The first step you and your family should take is to become educated on addiction. Addiction is a chronic and progressive disease that is known to affect the entire family.

Oftentimes, the effect substance abuse can have on your family causes certain family members to take on enabling roles. If you or one of your family members tends to clean up your teen’s mistakes associated with addiction, you could be enabling them to further their behavior. This is only one example of why it is so important for you and your entire family to become educated on addiction and how it affects your teen and your family as a whole.

Get Involved in Their Recovery

One of the best ways to prevent your teen from experiencing a relapse is by getting involved in their recovery. This could mean attending their sobriety anniversary celebrations at their recovery support meetings or attending family counseling.

One of the best ways to participate in your teen’s recovery journey is by getting involved in Structured Family RecoveryⓇ. This type of addiction counseling is intended for the addicted individual and their entire family, making it the perfect way to get involved in your teen’s recovery.

Structured Family RecoveryⓇ provides your family and your teen with the following benefits:

  • Addiction recovery services from intervention to aftercare
  • Individual and family services including assessment, referral, intervention, case management, monitoring, group counseling, individual therapy, family therapy, and sober coaching
  • Ongoing care that allows the family to spot a relapse before it happens
  • Help with family communication and conflict resolution
  • Helping mend broken relationships within the family unit
  • Creating equal partnerships within the family
  • Providing resources and instructions on what to do in case of a relapse

Learn Relapse Prevention Skills and Healthy Coping Mechanisms

To help your teenager prevent relapse, learning relapse prevention skills and healthy coping mechanisms that you can teach to them is of the utmost importance.

Some helpful relapse prevention skills include:

  • Breathing techniques
  • Mindfulness practices
  • Yoga and meditation
  • Identifying triggers (people, places, things, and emotions)
  • Five senses grounding (using the five senses to overcome cravings)
  • Journaling
  • Taking a nightly inventory to identify both positive and negative patterns of behavior
  • Continuing to attend group therapy, individual counseling, or recovery support groups like AA or NA
  • Medication management of co-occurring disorders if needed

Additionally, teaching your teen about the “HALT” (hungry, angry, lonely, and tired) concept could prevent them from experiencing a setback in their recovery. HALT is a theory that believes many people’s drug cravings stem from uncomfortable feelings like hunger, anger, loneliness, or tiredness. Because these are common everyday emotions, your teen needs to stay mindful and have an armory of coping mechanisms that they can use when they feel a craving.

Learn How to Identify the Stages of a Relapse

You and your teen need to understand that addiction relapse is not an isolated incident. Individuals go through two stages of relapse before they ultimately turn to drugs or alcohol and undergo the third and physical stage of relapsing.

The three stages of addiction relapse include emotional, mental, and physical relapse. Understanding the signs of each stage can help you and your teen prevent addiction relapse from occurring.

The first stage of relapse is emotional. The signs of emotional relapse include:

  • Bottling up emotions
  • Avoiding attending or participating in recovery meetings or therapy
  • Isolating from peers and family
  • Poor eating and sleeping habits
  • Not managing emotions in a healthy manner
  • Defensiveness
  • Mood swings
  • Not asking for help

The second stage of relapse is mental. The signs of mental relapse include:

  • Cravings to use alcohol or drugs
  • Thinking about people, places, or things associated with past substance abuse
  • Hanging out with old friends
  • Minimizing consequences of past use or romanticizing drug abuse
  • Bargaining or coming up with reasons to justify the use of alcohol or drugs
  • Lying
  • Thinking of ways to control substance abuse
  • Looking for opportunities to relapse
  • Imagining or fantasizing about using
  • Planning a relapse

The third and final stage of relapse is physical. This is the stage where an individual uses drugs or alcohol and breaks their sobriety. If your teen has relapsed, they may need to attend an addiction treatment center or double down on outpatient therapy, counseling, and the attendance of recovery support groups.

Structured Family RecoveryⓇ With Michael Herbert

Michael Herbert, The Recovery Guide, has more than 30 years of experience working closely with individuals and families dealing with addiction and recovery issues. He is a seasoned Coach and can help you and your family establish long-term goals and access the tools you need for continued abstinence and recovery for the entire family. Get in touch with Michael today at 561-221-7677 to schedule an appointment.